Why a memory test is only one part of diagnosing dementia
A normal memory test score doesn’t rule out dementia. Learn why, what a full assessment involves, and practical steps to take when someone won’t see the GP.
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Understanding Brain Changes and Fluctuating Abilities in Dementia
Dementia affects more than memory. Learn how changes within the brain can make abilities fluctuate, helping explain why someone can do something one moment and struggle the next.
Following the Clues: How the Environment Guides Us Every Day
Why do people living with dementia put on the wrong clothes, eat food that isn’t theirs, or reach for the wrong object? Before we can answer that, it helps to notice something about ourselves. We follow environmental cues every single day — automatically, without thinking. Understanding what changes when dementia affects the brain can shift the way we see, and the way we respond.
Low Blood Pressure in Dementia: What to Look For and Why It Matters
Sometimes, changes that look like “part of the dementia” are actually the body responding to something physical. Low blood pressure is more common in dementia than many people realise — here’s what to look for, why it happens, and what you can do.
Aggression and Violence in Dementia: Understanding Prevalence, Definitions and Context
Aggression and violence in dementia are widely discussed but often misunderstood. This article explains how researchers define and measure these behaviours, what the latest evidence suggests about prevalence across dementia types, and why context matters. It also offers practical, reassuring guidance for family carers on what can help reduce risk.
Protected: Understanding the GEMS States
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Carer Resentment
Resentment is one of the least spoken about but most common experiences in dementia caring. It often builds quietly as responsibilities increase, roles become entangled, and personal identity begins to fade. This article explores how resentment and co-dependent patterns develop, why they matter, and the practical steps that can help prevent exhaustion, burnout, and relationship strain.
Sorry Seems to be the Hardest Word!
In everyday British life, apologising is almost automatic, yet in a caring relationship it can feel confusing, unfair, or emotionally uncomfortable — especially when nothing appears to be the carer’s fault. This article explores why apologising can be so difficult, the difference between factual and emotional logic, and how gentle, well-chosen apologies can help soothe distress, reduce conflict, and strengthen connection. It offers practical guidance to help carers reframe “I’m sorry” as a compassionate tool rather than a sign of blame.